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Violence against women with disabilitie...</a>: Violence against women with disabilities Research suggests that women with disabilities are more likely to experience domes...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-58289970470197131702018-09-08T11:53:00.003-07:002018-09-08T11:55:41.176-07:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "&quot" , serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px;">Research suggests that women with disabilities are
more likely</span></b><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "&quot" , serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0px;"> to experience <u><span style="color: #000018;">domestic violence sexual assault, and emotional abuse </span></u>than women without
disabilities. Women with
disabilities may also feel more isolated and feel they are unable to report the
abuse, or they may be dependent on the abuser for their care. Like many women
who are abused, women with disabilities are usually abused by someone they
know, such as a partner or family member.</span><br />
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with Disabilities Are More Vulnerable to Domestic Violence</span></div>
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indicates that women with disabilities are more likely to suffer domestic
violence and sexual assault than women without disabilities. And women with
disabilities report that abuse lasts longer and is more intense than women
without disabilities.</span></div>
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other women, women with disabilities usually are abused by someone they know,
such as a partner or family member. In addition, women with disabilities face
the risk of abuse by healthcare providers or caregivers. Caregivers can
withhold medicine and assistive devices, such as wheelchairs or braces. They can
also refuse to help with daily needs like bathing, dressing, or eating.</span></div>
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for Violence Against Women with Disabilities</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "&quot" , serif; font-size: 11.5pt; margin: 0px;">Violence
against women with disabilities happens because of attitudes towards women
together with vulnerability from the conditions that result from the disability
itself, such as:</span></div>
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bonds and loss of the care they may require</span></div>
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<span style="color: #09355a; font-family: "&quot" , serif; font-size: 18pt; margin: 0px;">Domestic
Violence Is Never the Fault of the Victim</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "&quot" , serif; font-size: 11.5pt; margin: 0px;">Domestic
and sexual assault, stalking, and neglect are <b>never</b> the fault of the
victim. They are not based on stress, drugs, or alcohol. They are due to the
active choice of the abuser to use violence or other intimidating tactics to
control his victim.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "&quot" , serif; font-size: 11.5pt; margin: 0px;">Victims
often stay with their abuser for many reasons, including economic, cultural,
and fear of losing custody of the children. Perhaps most important, victims
fear increased violence or death or if they leave. In fact, the most dangerous
time for a victim is when she’s trying to leave. This may be due to the abuser
feeling like he is losing control over his victim. </span><span style="color: black; font-family: "&quot" , serif; font-size: 11.5pt; margin: 0px;">For women
with disabilities, it can be even worse. If they are being abused by someone
they rely on to take care of them, they may feel trapped. </span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: "&quot" , serif; font-size: 11.5pt; margin: 0px;">Women who
are blind or visually impaired have additional concerns related to their
vision. As one victim noted, "I realized that my vision was being used
against me...(later) I learned about my vision and how to use it more
efficiently. This restored my confidence." Be sure to read her story, <a href="http://www.visionaware.org/info/emotional-support/personal-stories/crime-and-domestic-violence-stories/domestic-violence-has-many-faces-7759/1235"><span style="color: #033b62; margin: 0px;">"Domestic Violence Has Many Faces"</span></a>.</span></div>
The National Domestic Violence Hotline<br />
1.800.799.SAFE (7233)*1.800.787.3224 (TTY)<br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">I met Elizabeth Page, LMSW, founder of Disabled Crime Victims Assistance, Inc.; www.devainc.org. She inspired me to write this post, she was a victim
of workplace violence, and is now permanently confined to a wheelchair. She has
committed her life to bringing awareness to the plight of women with
disabilities who are victimized by sexual assault and domestic violence.
Domestic abuse is a crime that passes on no one, anyone, male or female can be
a victim of this crime. </span></div>
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To r<span style="font-family: "calibri";">ead more about resources and the work we do to help victims
of domestic violence, visit our website, <a href="http://www.inamaegreene.org/"><span style="color: #0563c1;">www.inamaegreene.org</span></a>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";">“BECAUSE THE ROAD TO
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OCTOBER MARKS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE MONTH</div>
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Love should never hurt.<br />
And yet, relationship violence is a far too common dynamic for many women (and men) on today’s dating and mating scene. According to NBCNEWS.COM, “Nearly 3 U.S. women are killed every day by current or former romantic partners.”<br />
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WHAT EXACTLY IS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?</div>
As per the Department of Justice: “We define domestic violence as a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of actions that influence another person.”<br />
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WHO DOES DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IMPACT?</div>
Domestic Violence affects women (and men) from all different walks of life; from different educational backgrounds, races, age groups, educational and economic leanings.<br />
Domestic Violence does not discriminate.<br />
Though its impact is far-reaching, reportedly, African-American women comprise about 50% of female homicide victims. Not only does Domestic Violence “hurt” its victims, it takes a collective and burdensome toll on friends, family members, employers, church communities, and society at large. It robs us of stolen potential and future contributions.<br />
Because of the serious, horrific nature of this crime, Domestic Violence Awareness Month evolved from the "Day of Unity" held in October 1981 and was conceived by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence.<br />
The primary goals in the evolving years, has been to educate, empower and eventually eradicate this social ill.<br />
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A LOOK AT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THROUGH THE EYES OF A COP</div>
Domestic Violence has so many “moving parts”. From the victims, to the families, to the health care providers, to law enforcement officials. To provide a more comprehensive, well-rounded view of some of the situations and circumstances surrounding this issue, some time ago, we at IMGF interviewed a Chicago cop who has experience in professionally dealing with this area.<br />
You can learn more about protective measures, warning signs, suggestions and other useful Domestic Violence information in her interview here:<br />
http://inamaegreene.blogspot.com/2013/05/a-look-at-domestic-violence-through.html<br />
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ADDITIONAL RESOURCES<br />
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If you or someone you love is caught in the grips of Domestic Violence, know that you are not alone. “Arm” yourself with accurate information, resources and available options, as they relate to your specific situation and location (or those that apply to your loved one).<br />
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Here are a few places and organizations (in addition to IMGF) that can help you with an array of needs, and provide guidance whatever your stage or transition.<br />
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NCADV.ORG<br />
https://ncadv.org/learn-more/resources<br />
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE RESOURCES BY CITY<br />
http://www.dhs.state.il.us/page.aspx?item=31886<br />
BETWEEN FRIENDS<br />
http://betweenfriendschicago.org/gethelpnow_resources.html<br />
Remember that: “A journey of a thousand miles begins with that first step.”<br />
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THIS SPRING-- “DECLUTTER” YOUR PERSONAL LIFE</div>
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Spring is on the horizon. And with it comes the usual cleaning, purging, dusting, and rearranging to improve our home’s interior and enhance our quality of life.<br />
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But, as we beautify our surroundings, it’s important to include our “personal dwelling” as well: our hearts, minds, body and spirit. Because when we make our “temple” clean, lean and strong, we will experience a higher level of functioning and reach new heights on many other levels.<br />
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How many of us need to “toss” raggedy, toxic relationships?<br />
To purge our hearts of bitterness and grudges?<br />
To get our “financial house” in order?<br />
To “dust off” outdated ways of thinking?<br />
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In the words of Socrates: “ The unexamined life is not worth living.”<br />
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With this in mind, here are some areas to examine and address as you “declutter” your personal life this spring.<br />
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<b>MIND</b><br />
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Do you lead a disciplined thought life? Are your thoughts positive or negative? The Bible tells us in Phillipians 4:8,” Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”<br />
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Is your mind plagued by regrets from the past? Remember…you can’t change the past, but you can learn the lesson and move forward with greater wisdom and grace.<br />
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Do you have an extended stay at “the Heartbreak Hotel”? Are you repeating the same destructive habits and poor choices from years past? Are you allowing yourself to be mentally or physically abused? Still? It’s not too late to break free to live the type of life you deserve and desire in 2017. There are many resources available to help. Check our website for details. <br />
http://www.inamaegreene.org/<br />
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<b>BODY</b><br />
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Studies show that Blacks are affected by obesity disproportionately. Some contributing factors are lack of exercise, poor diets, and unhealthy lifestyles. Choose better. Make your health a priority. Don’t just strive to look pretty and fashionable. Dig deeper.<br />
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<b>HERE ARE A FEW SUGGESTIONS:</b></div>
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Purchase a cookbook with healthy recipes and experiment with a new way of eating.<br />
If you don’t like to exercise, consider other alternatives. Dancing, stepping, bowling, can all help to keep you active, boost your metabolism and burn extra calories. Do something…soon.<br />
See your doctor regularly for routine screenings. It’s unwise to wait until you don’t feel well. Prevention is the key.<br />
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Are you on board to live better?<br />
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If you’d like to make 2017 a year of great progress, peace, and passion, remember that spring cleaning should include all aspects of your life for optimal results.<br />
Now get moving. ☺<br />
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LOVE YOURSELF THIS VALENTINE’S DAY…</div>
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Many of us, as women, have been raised and socialized to look for our “knight in shining armor” to love us, rescue us, and lead us into “happily-ever-after”…</div>
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But, as we mature and grow in wisdom, we learn to separate fact from fiction. </div>
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Or in some cases, fact from friction!</div>
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When we conduct a personal analysis of our lives and experiences with the opposite sex, we realize that relationships are far from perfect, and often lack that fairy tale ending we hope for.</div>
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They can be complicated, confusing, combative.</div>
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And sometimes, may even be plagued with infidelity, abuse, anger, deception and irreconcilable differences.</div>
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All of which can cause us to lose sleep, rob us of our peace, doubt our worth.</div>
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Drama that can compromise our self-esteem and sense of safety.</div>
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But this Valentine’s Day, don’t lose heart. It’s not too late to learn to live differently, honor yourself, and create the type of future you desire and deserve.</div>
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And it begins with you, sweetheart.</div>
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If this Valentine’s Day finds you without a man or a plan, don’t despair.</div>
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As a popular song states: “I’ve got all my life to live, and I’ve got all my love to give. </div>
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I will survive.” </div>
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Don’t place your life on hold…you’re better than that. </div>
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This Valentine’s Day, this year, you should:</div>
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<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Buy your own roses.</div>
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<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Eat from the good china.</div>
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<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Go to a movie.</div>
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<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Wear pretty lingerie, even if there’s no man to model it for.</div>
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<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Get a massage.</div>
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<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span>Start a journal to increase self-awareness, and make more informed decisions.</div>
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HOW TO KEEP MORE RESOLUTIONS IN 2017!</div>
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Most folks start off on the right foot. To establish solid ground, and to improve upon the year before, they eagerly create New Year’s resolutions and promise to …</div>
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But did you know that statistics show that only 8% of people actually keep their resolutions? Here are some more statistics you’ll also find interesting:<br />
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But don’t give up hope here. You can achieve the things you desire and deserve.</div>
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1. YOUR GOALS ARE NOT WELL THOUGHT OUT<br />
In other words, you need to have a game plan to accompany your goals for greater success. Hello? For example, it’s not enough to want to “lose weight,” how will you make it happen? Join Weight Watchers? Eat less? Go to the gym 3x a week? Give up pizza and pasta?<br />
The more specific, strategic and realistic you are, the greater your odds for success.<br />
2. YOU’RE “TALKING THE TALK, BUT NOT WALKING THE WALK”<br />
Bust a move. Words without action to back it up are futile<br />
3. YOU NEED HELP<br />
And there’s no shame in it. The Bible states: “The wise seek counsel.” Are you stuck in a rut? Require new skills to abandon an old job? Seeking to leave an abusive relationship? Struggle with depression? There are an array of resources available to you, don’t suffer in silence or confusion. <br />
You are not alone.<br />
4. YOU’RE ALLOWING FEAR TO GOVERN YOUR ACTIONS<br />
Everybody’s afraid. Of something…<br />
But the key is to not let fears hold us hostage or keep us in destructive patterns. You can find a new love! A new life! Greater peace! More fulfillment! But to move forward, you must release old fears and doubt. Pray for guidance and needed direction.<br />
5. YOU’RE NOT OBSERVING THE “S.M.A.R.T.” PRINCIPLE<br />
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Follow these five timely tips as a road map for a smoother journey, as you navigate the path to success!<br />
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‘Tis the season to be jolly,” according to the lyrics of a popular holiday tune. </div>
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But, for countless Americans across the country, Xmas time is clouded by depression, isolation, sadness, and even pain. </div>
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Particularly, for victims of domestic violence. Everyday situations and simple things can escalate or spiral out of control.</div>
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Unfortunately, the stress of the holiday season, unmet expectations and increased alcohol consumption can serve as triggers for further abuse.</div>
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Don’t become another statistic. </div>
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Read and heed the following tips to stay safe and sane during the holiday season.<br />
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1. LIMIT YOUR ALCOHOL CONSUMPTION AND YOUR EXPOSURE TO PEOPLE WHO TYPICALLY CAN’T HANDLE THEIR LIQUOR WELL.</div>
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ADDITIONALLY, HERE ARE SOME TIMELY TIPS OFFERED BY<br />
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ON A FINAL NOTE…<br />
In this season of “giving,” we at IMGF hope you’ll remember us in your charitable donations throughout the holiday season and in 2017.<br />
Your generosity, (through tax deductible contributions) helps to provide needed resources and programs to those in crisis situations, and saves lives.<br />
We couldn’t do this without you.<br />
Thank you for your support and prayers throughout the year.<br />
From our door to yours, we wish you peace, blessings, and the joy of the season!<br />
We hope you’ll rejoin us in 2017 for new resources, materials and events regarding domestic violence.<br />
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“BECAUSE THE ROAD TO SAFETY SHOULD NEVER BE A DEAD END.”<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-15041384478883994622016-11-26T13:07:00.001-08:002016-11-26T13:07:12.033-08:00<br />
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It’s been a tough year and a tough economy for many…</div>
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Consider this during the Thanksgiving holiday season: Even though your bank account may not be “full” no doubt your stomach will be.</div>
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Yet countless Americans will be without a turkey dinner, or a table to put their feet under to call home, or the love of family, or good health that allows them to function independently.</div>
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So this year, why not focus less on all the things you don’t have, and focus more on God’s abundant blessings? </div>
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THINGS YOU CAN DO…</div>
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We wish you a blessed, bountiful, beautiful, safe Thanksgiving.</div>
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-63168635870696555302016-08-12T16:40:00.000-07:002016-08-12T16:41:16.130-07:00The Forgotten Victim-When the victim of relationship violence is a man Part three<br />
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Why do we wait until something tragic happens to move on an issue or make changes when we have known all along that there is a problem there? By WE I mean the lawmakers, state and local government, the mayor, city council, police etc.!<br />
Why did 16 people need to die before the state decided to look into the licenses and inter working of the hot air balloon business? Why did five police officers in Dallas need to die because the Dallas police department was so ill equipped, that they were out gunned by one man, before it was determined that the officers need better equipment with which to protect themselves and the public; and that they need a raise in pay because their lives area worth much more than $45,000 dollar a year (rookie salary). WHY?<br />
Why will another young man need to die before the lawmakers and judges can see that a woman can be as deadly as a man when it comes to domestic violence? Just this past Monday in Graham NC a 32-year-old man was shot by his girlfriend, (so yes it does happen). I have been a victims’ advocate for more than a decade, and I know that a women is three times more likely to be the victims in a domestic violence’s cases than a man. Does that mean that we should look the other way and that it is okay for the victim to be male since it doesn’t happen that often?<br />
We have looked the other way from women being murdered and abused my their intimate partner for one hundred years and we are only just starting to pay attention to what is happening to women and children behind the closed doors of a home where there is abuse. But for the male victims, we as a country and a community are not looking at all. BECAUSE we have decided that it is impossible for a man to be the victim of domestic violence. So we ignore the problem (like we once did with women), the cries for help, the lack of support in police and the court systems and sit back comfortable in the belief that the man can fix it on his own.<br />
News flash, HE CANNOT!<br />
Did you know that in the state if Texas where we live, that men have no legal rights to their children if they were never married to the mother and they don’t have a court ordered custody plan in place? So if he cannot afford a decent lawyer he is screwed! To rub the salt all the way into his wounds, don’t let her accuse him of any wrongdoing. Innocent until proven guilty does not apply here.<br />
He will need to prove to the court and CPS that her accusations are false, before he can see his child. The system (justice) is not set up to support a male victim! And no, legal aid will not be a help to him because like most programs for poor people, they are under funded and under staffed and the child will likely be leaving college before the father can spend time with him or her before the legal aid system can get around to his case. Not hating on legal aid just stating the sad facts! Okay maybe a little exaggeration here!<br />
In my next installment I will list what few resources there are and how to protect yourself if you are male victim of domestic violence.<br />
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“BECAUSE THE ROAD TO SAFETY SHOULD NOT BE A DEAD END-FOR ANYONE!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-18242536046666657372016-05-10T14:05:00.001-07:002016-05-23T12:01:40.116-07:00BIG MOMMA DIDN'T TELL ME!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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New cover, new words, more inspiration than before! The new and updated version will be available to purchase on our website www.inamaegreene.org and on Amazon Memorial Day!</div>
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Heres to your health and healing!<br />
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Darlene Greene-Barree<br />
Executive Director<br />
Ina Mae Greene Foundation-<i>For My Sisters</i><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-48201055780538744322015-05-12T08:11:00.001-07:002015-05-12T09:00:43.315-07:00IMGF Proudly Announces Publication of "Big Momma" Slated for Summer 2015<br />
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<span style="color: blue; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><strong>About the Book...</strong></span><br />
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<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5662"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5661" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Big Momma Didn't Tell Me <strong id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5790">This </strong>Would Happen is a cautionary tale about life, love and relationships. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Big Momma, being the strong Matriarch of the family, until it came to her husband. Then everything he says goes; whether she agreed with it or not.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A legacy that was passed down to her daughters and granddaughters, perpetuating a cycle of "blind obedience," drama, pain, dysfunction, and even death.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5543"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5542">This book is a time capsule that spans more than five decades. It chronicles the story of Ella Mae King (Big Momma) and the trials and tribulations of the women in one southern family who never understood what love really was. </span></span><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5658"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5657">What to expect in relationships, or how to make healthy relationship choices.</span></span></span></div>
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<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5802"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5801" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">A story about a family legacy of giving in to your man <em>no matter the consequences, </em>that is handed down to the young women, generation after generation-- like fine china and cherished heirlooms.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It's a legacy of control... of abuse and death, resulting from a lack of knowledge about relationship violence and how it affects the entire family, not just the victim.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Though the story is lived out by one family of beautiful African-American women, it is a story line that is echoed across the country by women of all races and socio-economic backgrounds where domestic violence and toxic relationships serve as a common theme. </span></div>
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<span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5671"><span id="yui_3_16_0_1_1431440690898_5670" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Big Momma Didn't Tell Me <strong>This</strong>Would Happen will make you laugh, sometimes it will make you cry. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In the end, it is my hope that ultimately it will make you think-- about your choices, about love, and about relationship safety. Because "what you DON'T know CAN hurt you!"</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">This 3rd book, authored by Darlene Greene, (the 1st fictional work), will be available as a limited edition in August. You can order it online through the website. </span></div>
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Mothers. Where would any of us be without them?<br />
They give us roots and wings. They were our first teachers.<br />
Most believed in us before we believed in ourselves.<br />
They dried tears and calmed fears.<br />
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They are our silent "cheerleaders."<br />
They lift us up in prayer.<br />
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Which is why IMGF is proud to salute all mothers, grandmothers and stepmothers for the crucial role they play in the lives of others (officially) on May 10th. But, realistically all year long!<br />
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In all you do, take time out for you!<br />
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Wishing you a<br />
Happy Mother's Day filled with abundant blessings and fond memories!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-29512752106321680882015-03-04T08:01:00.004-08:002015-03-04T08:01:55.572-08:00The Purple Pinkie Project--Bringing Awareness to Teen Dating Violence<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Consider the following statistics.<br />
According to loveisrespect.org:<br />
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<li>Approximately 1.5 million high school students nationwide encounter physical abuse from a dating partner in a single year.</li>
<li>72% of 8th and 9th graders are reportedly "dating."</li>
<li>70% of college students have been sexually coerced.</li>
<li>Violent behavior typically rears its ugly head between the ages of 12 and 18.</li>
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These statistics underscore the importance of educating and empowering our youth, as it relates to dating, positive self-esteem and awareness, anger management, and healthy relationship boundaries and behaviors.<br />
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The "Purple Pinkie" Project was established to address this growing need.<br />
Created by the Whitney Family in 2012, to honor and remember Alexandra Kogut, a college freshman who was reportedly murdered by her boyfriend, and whose favorite color was purple.<br />
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Why does the "pinkie finger" have significance?<br />
It is said to symbolize strength and promise.<br />
In a show of solidarity and support, women and men all over, have painted their pinkies purple and posted their photos on Facebook and other social media circles.<br />
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With the Purple Pinkie Charitable Foundation's advocacy, efforts and involvement, perhaps we can come one step closer to creating a kinder, gentler generation for the future.<br />
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To learn more, or to make a contribution, visit: <br />
<a href="http://www.purplepinkie.org/"><span style="background-color: purple;">http://www.purplepinkie.org/</span></a><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-21376111904786273982015-02-02T09:44:00.003-08:002015-02-02T09:44:55.086-08:00Black History Month Tribute to the Strength and Beauty of Black Women<br />
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Sometimes we forget who we are, where we come from.<br />
Though history books may minimize our collective contributions, and we are recognized during the shortest month of the year, trust me-- there is nothing "small" about people of color.<br />
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From humble beginnings, we have made a huge impact on all aspects of society: from arts and entertainment, to fashion, to politics, to sports, to the business arena. We are an undeniable force!<br />
Strong. Innovative. Proud. Determined.<br />
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Particularly Black Women.<br />
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Which is why it gives the Ina Mae Greene Foundation tremendous pleasure to honor Black History Month.<br />
A celebration of past achievements and future greatness.<br />
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We invite you to join us.<br />
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<strong>LIKE WINE WE RARE (FOR SOUL SISTERS)</strong></div>
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Defiant hair</div>
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"Attitude" to spare,</div>
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We rare</div>
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Full hips</div>
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Skin that's been</div>
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(C) 2006 J.B. Banks<br />
Image Credit: Henry L. JonesAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-69182080084075995812015-01-02T14:19:00.002-08:002015-01-02T14:21:13.034-08:00NOMORE.ORG JOINS THE FIGHT AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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No more.org is a public awareness campaign and social movement purposed to end domestic violence and sexual assault, through various programs, public service initiatives, and resources. Its roots date back to 2009.<br />
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The group, along with local and national organizations, seeks to remove the stigma associated with Domestic Violence and add some much needed conversations surrounding a social issue that has been shrouded in secrecy for far too long.<br />
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The campaign has even partnered with celebrities and NFL athletes to assist their cause, and to give greater visibility and a stronger platform to reach more people.<br />
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<b>NOMORE.ORG SHARES THE FOLLOWING STATISTICS AND STUDIES:</b> <br />
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<li>12.7 million people are raped, physically abused or stalked by partners in a 12-month period.</li>
<li>Abusive unions can affect long-term health. Survivors of intimate partner violence are 70% more likely to experience heart disease.</li>
<li>According to an Avon Study, 60% of Americans know a victim of either domestic or sexual violence, or both.</li>
<li>3 out of 4 parents have not talked about the issue of Domestic Violence with their children.</li>
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To learn more, provide a donation, or to get involved, visit NOMORE.ORG<br />
<a href="http://nomore.org/category/news/">http://nomore.org/category/news/</a><br />
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...Because silence can be deadly.<br />
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Happy Holidays, Readers and Friends.<br />
The year seems to have flown by, with all the hustle and bustle.<br />
As the year comes to an end, there's no better time to say thanks for your ongoing support, donations, and good will. We appreciate all you do to help us to continue to carry out our mission, and to make domestic violence a thing of the past.<br />
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Next year we look forward to some new and promising things, and hopefully more resources to help those in need.<br />
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Please keep us in your thoughts and in your prayers.<br />
If you would like to stay abreast of new projects, changes in services or policies, or referral information, you can receive updates by visiting this blog, or signing up for email notifications through this site.<br />
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From our door to yours...<br />
<span style="color: red;">Have a Merry Christmas, filled with peace, abundance and joy!</span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><b>Warmly,</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><b>Darlene</b></span><br />
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<br />
2014.<br />
It's been a "challenging" year for many of us individually and collectively.<br />
The Ebola crisis. Political upheaval in the White House. Domestic violence issues being brought to the forefront; affecting women and men of every class, color, and socio-economic backgrounds.<br />
The loss of comic legends like Robin Williams and Joan Rivers.<br />
And "extremes" in everything from the weather to the gas prices at the pump.<br />
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To paraphrase Charles Dickens...<br />
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"These are the best of times, these are the worst of times."<br />
Still there is much for which we all can be grateful. Daily blessings...our health, friendships, family and more.<br />
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Accordingly, we at Ina Mae Greene Foundation would like to wish you continued blessings this holiday season,<br />
and Thanksgiving memories as rich as homemade gravy. :-) Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-46974320240887575802014-10-31T06:26:00.000-07:002014-10-31T06:26:45.744-07:00October is National Bullying Prevention Month...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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As we close out the month of October with celebrations of Halloween and goblins and scary things, we at IMGF would also like to recognize a cause that has great social significance; one that is "scary" on many levels for a number of kids today.<br />
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October is National Bullying Prevention Month. Bullying can manifest in various forms, on different levels: from verbal abuse, to cyber-bullying, to physical intimidation, to teen dating violence.<br />
It can impact targeted individuals through fear, low self-esteem, and feelings of isolation.<br />
In the worst case scenarios, it has also lead to suicide, particularly in teens.<br />
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Because of the gravity of this issue, National Bullying Prevention Month was established in 2006, by PACER'S National Bullying Prevention Center.<br />
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The goal of this month is to increase awareness, help others to honor differences, and find ways to prevent bullying for kids of all ages.<br />
Communities, organizations and schools have joined forces to provide programs and activities which include: stomp out bullying week, make a new friend week, and Blue Shirt Day.<br />
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For more information and resources check out Stompoutbullying.org. <a href="http://www.stompoutbullying.org/index.php/information-and-resources/about-bullying-and-cyberbullying/forms-bullying/" target="_blank">Stomp out bullying.org.</a><br />
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Have a safe and "sweet" Halloween.<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-57525899262794226252014-10-21T09:58:00.004-07:002014-10-21T09:58:54.999-07:00Domestic Violence Month Featured Advocate-Allstate Foundation's Purple Purse Project<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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One aspect of the "abuse" that continues to victimize women and hold them "hostage" is financial abuse. <br />
Faced with limited to no funds, many find themselves without the financial resources to move on and start over. For some it's a matter of sheer survival. Financial abuse, in fact, is reported to occur in 98% of domestic violence cases.<br />
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Allstate Foundation is working to change that. The "Purple Purse" project provides grants and resources to organizations whose purpose is to work directly with victims to educate and empower them financially. <br />
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Since 2005, they have partnered with leading national and local non-profits to make a positive difference in the fight against domestic violence. Through their efforts, they are making it "fashionable" to talk about domestic violence, in order to remove the stigma, fear, and cycle of silence.<br />
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To learn more, or to show support, visit their site at Purplepurse.com: <br />
<a href="http://purplepurse.com/the-inside/">http://purplepurse.com/the-inside/</a><br />
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-53643611597206044302014-10-16T04:23:00.001-07:002014-10-16T04:23:16.973-07:00The Conversation--"Why I stayed, why I left..."<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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One of the reasons that domestic violence continues to devastate families and claim countless lives each year, is that it is shrouded in secrecy and shame.<br />
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Historically, victims have by and large remained silent due to fear. Fear of being judged, fear for their lives, fear of starting over and facing the unknown.<br />
To those who have witnessed it and wondered why, answers are now being shared and needed conversations have begun to perhaps provide healing.<br />
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<strong>"Why I stayed, why I left"</strong> has become a movement and a powerful platform for women across the world to share their stories through Twitter. <br />
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This reportedly in the aftermath of Janay Rice's decision to stay with her husband in the face of domestic violence and the release of the infamous elevator video.<br />
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"There is strength in numbers," and perhaps women will find the needed support in sharing their stories and realizing that they are not alone.<br />
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What's your story?<br />
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We'd love to hear it. Leave a comment.<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-89195854760787747302014-10-08T08:29:00.001-07:002014-10-08T08:29:24.444-07:00October Awareness...What You Should Know<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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It's October.<br />
A month signifying the end of summer, and a slower pace; as we prepare for the end of the year and holiday festivities.<br />
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It's also formally recognized with a very familiar slogan to millions of Americans: "Think Pink."<br />
Which represents Breast Cancer Awareness Month.<br />
In fact, no matter where you live, it's difficult to turn on the TV or radio without hearing the daily messages, commercials, promotional activities, sponsored "walks" and other events to increase awareness and garner support of this deadly threat to women of all ages and backgrounds.<br />
No doubt, it's a worthy cause that merits our attention.<br />
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But few recognize comparatively that October is also Domestic Violence Awareness Month.<br />
Why is that?<br />
For historical references, Domestic Violence Awareness Month was "officially" recognized back in 1981, while Breast Cancer Awareness Month was said to date back to 1985.<br />
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Both tragedies claim countless victims each year, yet domestic violence is rarely addressed, it seems, unless it affects someone who has "Red Carpet" status in our society (Chris Brown, Ray Rice, etc.)<br />
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Heres' a point for reflection...<br />
What about the women who don't have a "public platform?" Whose husbands are not celebrities or football players? Are they less worthy of being heard or rescued? <br />
Do we turn a deaf ear on their cries?<br />
Should we remain silent?<br />
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As a wise man once stated: "If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem."<br />
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...Food for thought.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-13257995560856338002014-09-08T19:27:00.005-07:002014-09-08T19:31:00.212-07:00<div class="MsoNormal">
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Ray Rice-WHAT IS THE REAL ISSUE HERE?!</h3>
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The world news is buzzing about Ray Rice and the fact that he
knocked his then girlfriend, now wife out cold in an elevator. Thank God for modern
technology because without proof from a videotape of the crime, I have to ask, would there
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And what about her, no one is talking about how she is
feeling right now. As we often do with domestic violence victims we put the
focus on what she didn’t do. "Why didn’t she leave him after the fight"? "Why did
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Should we instead
of asking why is she allowing him to hit her, <i>when he is obviously going to be
stronger and hitting her could not have been an act of self-defense.</i> </div>
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Should not the question be; Why is he hitting his girlfriend, a women who
is now his wife and could someday be the mother of his children?</div>
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All of this controversy over who is right and what is wrong here is confirmation that this country
still has a very long way to go when it comes to understanding the tremendous harm
that violence against women is doing to the American family.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The answer to the Ray Rice dilemma is that he, nor any man should hit his wife, girlfriend or any woman, EVER! </div>
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And the implication that she LET him hit her is absurd! If you
saw the video it was obvious there was nothing that she could have done to stop
him. Domestic violence is never okay, she could have been seriously injured or
even killed when she hit her head, but no one is thinking or talking about that. </div>
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The world is concerned about is how much money he is going to lose, and if the NFL is being fair to HIM for suspending him indefinitely-- for hitting and knocking out (with one punch) a women who he is supposed to love</div>
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The response from the world regarding the plight of this young women is the reason that many women do not come forward. "She is the bad guy because She cost him his career"! Shame on you America!</div>
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I hope and pray that they will not be in the news again -- that when the cameras are not around and they are in privet, that she will safe and not continue to be abused by her husband. </div>
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A man who thought that it was okay to hit her in a public place, thinking that he was above
the law and that there would be no retribution for his actions, right down to
blaming his bad behavior on being raised by a single Mother!</div>
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We saw what he did when he <b>thought</b> no one was watching, what might he do when he <b>knows</b> that no one is watching!</div>
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<strong><em>Words to Live, Laugh & Grow By</em></strong><br />
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"The formula for peace of mind is simple: don't worry about anything and pray about everything."<br />
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"If you control your tongue, you will master your life."<br />
<strong>---J. Countryman</strong><br />
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<strong>"</strong>No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."<br />
<strong>---Eleanor Roosevelt</strong><br />
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<strong>"</strong>You can't fix what you don't acknowledge first.<strong>"</strong><br />
<strong>---Dr. Phil</strong><br />
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"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, and expecting different results<strong>."</strong><br />
<strong>---Einstein</strong><br />
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<strong>"</strong>I wouldn't trade the knowledge I have now for the body I had years ago<strong>."</strong><br />
<strong>---Kathy Whirity</strong><br />
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<strong>"</strong>Love may be blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener."<br />
<strong>---Anonymous</strong><br />
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<strong>"</strong>Be still and know that I am God<strong>."</strong><br />
<strong>---Psalms</strong><br />
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"Sometimes the best we can do is the best we can do.<strong>"</strong><br />
<strong>---Anonymous</strong><br />
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<strong>"</strong>The greatest wealth is health<strong>."</strong><br />
<strong>---Ralph Waldo Emerson</strong><br />
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<strong>Here's hoping that the rest of the week is the best of your week!</strong>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2814289821863430525.post-31786022296399587272014-03-25T10:32:00.000-07:002014-03-25T10:32:19.689-07:00IMGF HONORS WOMEN HISTORY MONTH-GUEST POST BY MARCIE HILL<br />
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<span lang="EN"><strong>7 Ways Women Can Empower and Uplift Each Other</strong><br />
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Women rock. We are the backbone of families, movers and shakers in the business world, and catalysts for change in our communities.<br />
But, unfortunately we don't always come together in support, friendship and solidarity, as we should.<br />
Many of us not realizing that there's great truth to the adage: "There is strength in numbers."<br />
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<strong>With this in mind, here are a few ways we can uplift, encourage and inspire, that are simple, quick and "fat-free", even</strong>.<br />
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1. Say “hello”, “good morning” or whichever greeting that is appropriate during the encounter.<br />
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2. Smile. A <b>genuine</b> smile is the one universal language that everyone understands. It is also the absolute smallest action you can take to bless someone else. <br />
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3. Speak life into their lives. Women have so many things going on at once – work, home, community and emotions – and just never know what someone is dealing with at any given time. Whenever possible, try to speak a kind, inspiring word to a sister. <br />
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4. Pay her a compliment. This is probably the best investment of words you can make on any day. <b>Sincerely</b> compliment a woman on things that are obvious: her beauty, outfit, shoes, purse or smile. If nothing immediately stands out, mention her gifts, talents and accomplishments or don’t say anything at all. <br />
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5. Give her a hug. If you have a personal relationship with the young lady, this is easy. If you don’t, you just ask for permission. If you are coming from a legitimate caring place, I’m sure she won’t say no. <br />
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6. Express your gratitude, appreciation or admiration in writing. This could be a blog post; a status update on your social site; virtual flowers; or a handwritten letter or card sent through snail mail. <br />
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7. Interview her and spread the word on your blog and social sites. This is one of the best ways to acknowledge another woman’s progress and accomplishments and share them with the world. Your interview can be in text, audio or video formats.<br />
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Since I know that confident, beautiful and intelligent women who mind their own business – literally and figuratively- are reading this article, I encourage you to make a conscious effort to empower and uplift another sister through one of the actions listed above. Guaranteed, you will be doubly blessed when you bless someone else. <br />
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<strong><span style="color: red;">Happy Women's History Month.</span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: red;">BIO: Marcie Hill, M.S. is an author, blogger, entrepreneur and social media expert from Chicago. </span></strong>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13806539659497754277noreply@blogger.com0